Making him feel sexy
When it comes to getting him to view you as someone he may
want to share the rest of his life with, there are some deep and important core
ideals inside a man's soul that need to be touched on. One of them is making
him feel special, making him view that you value him as a man.
This can be obtained by getting him to do matters that only
he can for you. How he makes you feel at times, what he's done that others
haven't, who he is to you, these are things that can be expressed. Believe it
or not men can be deeper than what they exhibit on the exterior, even if they
don’t want to admit it or not.
Does he feel desired?
One of the most alluring factors in a soul-mate is when they
want you, when they desire you and no one else. This can have a bigger
attraction, greater than charm or beauty. It can make a person stand above
other people who think they have more to present in a relationship.
Expressing to him how he's wanted by you is another place
that can be touched on to get him to view you differently from women he has
known.
Illustrate to him you've got further options
This point can demonstrate to him that he isn't in charge of
your contentment. By expressing to him how lucky he was in getting you, you can
also make him appreciate that other people are willing to substitute him.
Where you don't have to say or do something that would
depict you as wavering in your faithfulness to him, allocating less time on him
and more with the girls night out, can keep him knowing that he ought to be
apprehensive.
Turning the tables on him
Women can unconsciously overcrowd a man when it comes down
to wanting to make him open up and be more loving. At times it can have the
opposite result and end up pushing them away.
What is desirable at times like these is to in fact give him
space, and get him to run after you a bit. By giving him less focus you can in
fact cause him to hunt you. Guys want to hunt the one they love; they are
hunters by nature and want that room to pursue. By giving him too much
affection and focus it is like expecting a dog to play fetch with a ball that
won't move.
You are not going to hang around forever, shake up his world
a bit
Men can take for granted what's presented to them too
effortlessly. When it comes to getting him to propose, you may need to show him
that you are not going to wait around for him without end. Occasionally you
want to demonstrate to him you have a time limit and that he's not in total
control.
This may be done through expressions, but sometimes needs to
be supported with more drastic moves. By spending less focus on him and more on
further things by yourself or with other friends, that can send out an obvious
note that you have a life apart from him and may in fact move on without him.
Letting him know he will be accepted no matter what
Guys aren't that easy-to-read at times. They can face the
stress of trying to provide economically for others, accomplishing what others
want from him, or an apprehension of failure in life. Men usually don't talk
about these things, until they go wrong.
Being a woman who makes him feel that he'll be accepted
despite these fears and troubles can make him view you in a different way. This
is a move that can make his heart open up to you.
Giving him the correct vision
Sometimes guys are stubborn. Throughout their lives, men
have been joking with each other about the downs of marriage, expecting that
those who do get married have no life afterwards. As a result, men can have a
very bad idea towards marriage.
To counter this, the correct mental picture should be placed
in front of his sight. By making him see the healthy parts of marriage, you can
remove this mindset. The honeymoon, the destinations you'll get to live, as
well as all the further benefits of the connection of a healthy marriage.
Without these images to look forward to, he'll never propose, because guys
don't do things they don't see as interesting and hopeful.
Getting him to propose can sometimes be complicated. But
issues in life that are complicated are only so when we don't fully know them.
When it comes down to what men and women want they can be different, but
sometimes they can be the same. Be sure to remember these things when it comes
to getting him to propose.
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